Should marriage be a union by love or union by contract?

Should marriage be a union by love or a union by contract? This is a question that individual (single and married) keeps asking themselves  everyday.

Most say no, marriage shouldn't be a contract because it is sacred and represents summit special between the man and woman. On the other hand, the ones who say Yes; ask where then is the sacredness when after three years into the marriage in becomes to scarp out, where is the love that was there in the first place. 

For those who feel neutral about the question, they belief that the couple should just keep dating till eternity, and carry on doing marital activities like having children. According to them, this keeps the relationship spice as they don't get to feel the pressure of marriage. 

Despite the fact that recently marriages are being broken faster than those dating, We still belief that marriage should continue to be a sacred union of love between individuals, as long as both parties are willing and ready.

We have found out that marriage that breakup just after few years, are mostly the ones that feel pressured going into it. They do so just because they want to please their spouse 

Whether it is a black or white family, they all face this problem. 

The only way to avoid breakups in marriage is to be ready and willing to go into it. To be ready, you have to be open, tell your partner what you actually feel when the marriage question pops out.

It should be noted if you aren't ready going into it, you will never be ready when you are already in it. 

Source: www.clintonsdaily.com