Chapter 2 of Toyin Lawani pregnancy series

Fashion stylist, Toyin Lawani is taking us through her pregnancy series as she discusses issues relating to pregnancy of what she had experienced and what other pregnant women go through. 

In today's section of her series, chapter 2, She discuses on her IG page about sex in pregnancy, revealing that a lot of women  find it difficult but doctors recommend it, saying its good for the baby.

Sharing her experience, Toyin noted that every pregnancy is different and took us through her journey in pregnancy.

She wrote, 

With my first child I did it till my due date and after the baby came I literally stopped and I felt pain everytime I did it after, which I later found out it was due to fibroids.

The second pregnancy I had red degeneration, so due to this the pregnancy was very high risk and had intercourse few times I could, only was fun at the beginning, and after the baby I had to do a fibroid surgery which wasn't even easy getting back on my feet, with work etc, if you say sex I will just runm

These 3rd pregnancy is a new experience for me, well maybe because I'm free of the fibroids and having intercourse was easy, till yesterday self unc segun did not let the child rest @deeeunknown. I hope there won't be a dent on baby unknowns head. 

But as I got heavy I started having bladder pains through it, positions started getting different and lazy, on my bad day I just literally avoid it, now there's something we all don't put into consideration, when we say no to sex during pregnancy or after, Atleast for 3 to 6 months or a year for some people do you actually know you are turning your partner away? 

Do you realize they have needs? Do you know that this result or push them cheating? Satisfying themselves even when they don't need to, yes every one will say no not my husband, well nobody is in the heart of a man. A man can live you so much to give his life to you, but you see that snake between his legs needs to be fed regularly and as nicely as you used to feed it, if not it can go astray, moms try and not change your ways, even on days you are not up to it, find another way or technique to please your man, it can be orally.

Being pregnant or having a new born can he overwhelming, plus sleepless nights, nobody even thinks about sex, but most men in their head are suffering but smiling.