To die while still live

Most people think that they have got it under control, but the truth is the situation is beyond their control. They shut everybody out including themselves from seeing the real situation and accepting the real truth. They think that because they have a creative mind or because of their abilities, they can make it on their own or get the situation solved. No matter how resourceful you are, you till need people to survive; you can't stand on your own and believe that you are superman, even superman in the comic needed other superheroes to stop the bad guys and save the day. No man is an island, unless they are looking at staying dry, empty, unprogressive, and stagnate; if not, you have got to let people help you or rather ask for help. You can't be strong all by yourself else you breakdown faster than you know it, without having anyone to help pull you up. 

Most people try to live up to other people opinions and expectations, thereby preventing them from seeing the bigger picture, only to rely on what others have to say. To do this, is to fulfill other people's goals and not your own, what then is the point of being alive when you cannot have a goal of your own and work towards achieving it? The answer is nothing, there is no reason or point to be alive because you only get to live in the life of other people. You never do nothing for yourself, just that of others. You have to know that you only live once, after which you are gone; don't spend your life by living in others opinions and expectations, but rather to live by your own dictation. It is better to make those mistakes when you have tried in your own way and as well learn from it, than to live the life of others dream. 

Most people think that the choice of their actions are not to blamed or rather they should take the blame for pulling those strings because of circumstances surrounding the situation. The truth is we are always to be blamed for every choice ,action, step we take; your circumstances should dictate how you act but rather your attitude should, and should be what leads you to take those steps. You always have a choice in every action to do better and be better. No matter how complicated the situation is, the right thing to do will always be the right choice, and unless you make that right choice, the situation will become much easier and less complicated. 

Every choice you make has it's consequences, if you aren't ready to face the consequences tend what is the point of making those choices. You have got to live up to your own rules, your own expectations, and your own choices.

Every step you take, every action you make, every time you spend, every decision you take, and every breathe you breath, should be towards making you a better person. No matter the amount of pressure mounted on you, it shouldn't stop you from being that better person. You just have to believe in yourself, and be 100% real with yourself.