The walk of friendship


No man is an island, that is why friendship exists; it is the close relationship that exist between friends or group of friends because you know them, like them, and spend much time with them. You can't just meet someone for the first time and say that you are friends with such person, without knowing anything about the person. 

Building friendship is a three step process - 

  • You know the person 
  • Spend time with the person 
  • Like the person 

It is as simple as the aforementioned, you know the person like - the name, what they do, where their from, their interest, what they like doing; generally you get to know the details about their life. 

Next, you spend time with the person, so as to check if he or she has really told the truth about himself, and also to get to know more about his or life. Lastly, if you find that person having the same characteristics and interest as you; you get to like the person, and there after become friends. 

Why are friends important 

There are several reasons why friends are important in the life of an individual, they include:

  • They motivate you in getting the job done 
  • They act as advisors against wrong doings and things that you aren't sure of
  • They are there for you when you need help 
  • They fight and protect you against evil and people that wants to do you harm
  • They help push you beyond your limit
  • They are the ones you turn to when you are in need of help, amongst others. 

There is no limit to why friends are important, especially those know and act the true meaning of friendship. 

The walk of friendship 

This is a very simple walk; it is that you do not walk in front of them, for them to follow. You do not walk behind them for you to follow; but rather to walk beside them and be their friend. In friendship nobody is the leader or the follower, everybody is equal and just as unique as the other person.

There is no ranking system in truth friendship, everybody gets to have an equal say and equal treatment if they are right or wrong. There is no preferential treatment in friendship, this is what the walk of friendship is. You must abide by this rule in other to build an unshaken friendship with people that you want to be your friend.

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