Which would you prefer? Of course, you would say in being a mother, but are you prepared and ready to give up on those and accomplish that task of being successful in being a mother. You might say that you can handle the two task and still come out best, but there is a question - is it you that decides or state that you are a good mother or your children?
This is a serious question which the answer needs to be based on events, but because of the nature of you being a mother as well as being in business, if the child or children happens to turn bad or take wrong steps, you will be blamed of not looking after your children, putting your business before your children, and being a bad mother.
Truth be told; you can take up the task of being the two but you must choose which one you want to be more successful at, because it is what you will channel your energy and focus at the more.
Most definitely, your choice would be to be successful at being a mother because of the love you have for your kids, and to also let them love you in return as their hero, while you try to secure their future.
But where as you choose being successful in business than in being a mother, because of the dreams you have when growing up. You should know that most often times this doesn't go down well especially with the kids, as it affects them negatively, even when you provide all their needs for them. They still need that maternal affection, not materialistic affection.
Remember when anything first happens to a child, it is the mother that is first called or contacted before the father, because she is the one that is expected to care for the family while the fathers provide for the family. Choose wisely who you want to be, would it be your business or your child?
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