In this content; relationship is a connection between two people in which they have feelings for each other, and behave in a romantic and sexual way towards each other. They spend more time together either by living together or seeing each other, and have close feeling of affection towards each other.
It has been said that 'relationships are built on solid ground, less it collapses', meaning for a relationship to last long both parties must play their roles well and follow the rules to having a healthy relationship. They must be prepared and ready to have a relationship before going into one, else what is the point of indulge in one when you are not. There is absolutely no point in doing this.
Rules to a healthy relationship
- Be ready and prepared
- Tolerance
- Communication
- Commitment
- Understanding
- Care
- Love
- Kindness and many other
It is of note that this list appears in no particular order
Type of people in a relationship
There are two types of people that goes into a relationship,
- Those that actually fall in love: For these kind of people, they go into relationship having fallen in love with their partner. This is the right way to be in a relationship because it set the relationship on the right track. Relationships that exist out of love from both partner are meant to last longer and be more healthier than any other. When love exists, it becomes easy for both partner to make the relationship work better; no one needs to try hard.
- Those that is in need of love: These kind of people are the love seekers, they are always striving to make the relationship work so they do whatever it takes to see that their partner is well pleased and don't mind at how their partner treats them. Only one partner in this relationship tends to be love with the other partner.
Is it necessary to be in a needy relationships?
It is never necessary to be in a needy relationship for any reason what so ever, it only shows that you have low self-esteem, and not confidence about yourself to love and be loved. Also, it shows that you aren't confident about your mind, body, abilities, and quality.
Don't go into a relationship because you are need of one, because that is how the relationship will be till the end, and it never last. It is best you search for love than to be in a relationship, and note this - it hurts when the love you show to a person is not reciprocated.
Find love that will love you back, that is how a relationship should be; LOVE AND BE LOVED.
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