Marriage is a union between two people who have agreed to come together and live as one as husband and wife, it is a relationship that is built with love, compassion, kindness, tolerance, forgiveness, perseverance, amongst others before it is ventured.
Not everybody understands what it means to be married and the responsibilities that comes along with it, most especially when children starts coming. For them it is about being in a relationship for some time like possibly six months, this period is called courtship; after which comes introduction to each of their parents with the intention of marriage; next comes the marriage.
These kind of people, their relationship during courtship is beautiful, every thing seems fine, and they are so in love with the person that they are ready to risk it all in other to be with their proposed partner. This kind of marital relationship most often time results into break ups because the marriage wasn't properly thought of and planned.
The real act of marriage takes place in the heart, it doesn't matter if you had your marriage wedding in the church, mosque, synagogue, court, ballroom, and open setting. Marriage is dependent on how the heart feels and it shows in the way you treat your husband or wife.
It's a choice that is not just made on your wedding day but over and over again because you have to live with it, live for it, and live by it. Any choice you have made in your heart about your marriage is what you will follow, and how you will react to your spouse as well as the way you will treat them.
Before you go into marriage or any relationship, you need to be prepared for it, and if you are not don't have the intention getting, don't date or avoid any courtship. What is the need of dating if you aren't ready to get married, don't play with people's heart for fun; if you want fun get a hobby or look for a job.
If you aren't ready for marriage, you aren't ready for dating. Don't use another person heart for fun!
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