Marriage is a union between a male and female who have agreed to become husband and wife. It can also be referred to the state of being married.
People marry for various reasons depending on how it's suits them, for most people it is because they are believe that they have found love, others include: pressure from family and friends, for the sake of having children, to avoid talk from the society, to not be lonely etc. Whatever the reason is it doesn't matter as long as you and your partner are happy.
Happiness in marriage is most often not based on love. Love is important but it doesn't fully make the marriage work because it is just an affectionate feeling that can be altered if anything goes sideways. The true happiness of a marriage lies in friendship.
Friendship is the key success to a happy marriage because you not only love the person but also know, enjoy, and like your partner. Marriage that is based on friendship allows couples to communicate effectively, tolerate one another, trust each other, enjoy spending time with each other; it offers a whole lot more to the relationship.
A marital relationship that is based on friendship allows couples to withstand the test of time, and makes them overcomers of any difficulty situation they find themselves in. Even for those that they marry for reasons other than love, as long as the couples relationship is based on friendship, it can lead to love. In other words, friendship develops into love.
For whatever reasons you have to marry ensure that your marriage is built on friendship because it makes a happy home.
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