Key to a good date

Dating is what is practiced by the young and old, the married and unmarried who could be in a romantic relationship or who are aspiring to be in a relationship. It is an occasion when you go out with someone that you like in a romantic way, and you both talk about things that interest you both in other to develop the relationship and see if you are both compatible. 

Most people who are considered to go on dates are often the young and unmarried which is true but old people as well as married people do go on dates so as to spice up their marriage and make it more fun. They do this for many reasons like: to feel young, to grow their marriage, to share intimacy etc. 

When people hear the phrase 'to go out on a date'; what comes to mind is to dress charmingly, go to an eatery or restaurant, talk and go back home. Dating is much more than this, it is meant to be fun and memorable; and there are many places and ways that you can go on a date, such as: club, cinemas or movie theater, beach, see a live match etc. Going to an eatery is more formal and should be done like on the first date but as you progress in the relationship, you should be more fun seeking by taking her to places that she enjoys and do what she wants. 

The key to a good date is to pay attention to her; it is not about how charming you look, how wealthy you are, how brilliant you are, the kind of place that you take her to. It is all about her and should be kept that way in other for you to win her over. If otherwise you pay more attention to yourself by trying to charm her with how charming you look, how brilliant and wealthy you are, you will end up achieving nothing and all your efforts would be a waste of time. 

On another hand, when you try to put up an act of making her think of you as what you are not, the end result would be fatal because there will come a time when you can't put with the act. Then you will have to show who you really are because of the stress. 

Dating is not about expenses, it is about connecting; and if it is the first time or any other time, it should be mostly about her.