People don't understand what it is to have a relationship and also to fall in love; they have the conception that because they are in a relationship, they are in love. This makes them misses that there is a different in both of them.
On one hand, there is to fall in love and another is to be in a relationship. To fall in love is to have a strong affectionate feeling for someone, it is to care very much about someone. It doesn't have to be when you are in a relationship before you can fall in love with anyone. To fall in love isn't what is expected, it just happens when it happens.
From the stories of different people who has fallen in love, especially elders, it can be noted that it is unexpected. It is a gradual affectionate feeling that continues to grow in a person and doesn't has limit. The only limit of height to which love can grow is when hatred sets in. But the best thing about love is that it is continous; it doesn't really matter how many times you fall in love as long as you find the right person.
To fall in love is a step by step process; first is the acquaintance stage, friendship stage, crush stage and finally the love stage. Both parties (male and female) will pass through this steps so that they can get to know each other thoroughly.
On the other hand, To have a relationship means that you are in connection with someone, which could be because of how they affect your life, how much time you spend together, and the connection you have with each other. Being in a relationship doesn't mean that you are in love with the person; it could be because of the aforementioned facts.
Mind you, for two people to fall in love doesn't prevent them from being in a relationship, it what's help their love to grow stronger and helps to get a better understanding as well as prepare them for what's to come.
Don't rush into a relationship that you are not prepared for; take your time to decide before taking any step.
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